The official Cork court report thread.

[JimmyBarrySmurph]

I would think it is worth going back to Court as it is much harder for someone to say to a Judge "Im just not going to do it" than it is to say that to the other person.

It is about boundary setting. If your person allows their ex to break the order without consequence then they will keep breaching it.

I agree.
I know someone who went through similar 4-6 years ago..
Unfortunately, You have to go back to court as Mattie says.
Unfortunately please bear in mind that the outcome of your case is largely dependent on the judge you’ll get and their attitude towards these things, rather than any rules.
Some judges take a very dim view of breaching, others don’t want to even know about it and say go way and sort it out yourselves type of thing. The person I know spent years in and out trying to get boundaries respected and in the end it went no where really. If your ex has money they will hire solicitors well able to muddy the waters

 

[Clairecarebear]

I agree.
I know someone who went through similar 4-6 years ago..
Unfortunately, You have to go back to court as Mattie says.
Unfortunately please bear in mind that the outcome of your case is largely dependent on the judge you’ll get and their attitude towards these things, rather than any rules.
Some judges take a very dim view of breaching, others don’t want to even know about it and say go way and sort it out yourselves type of thing. The person I know spent years in and out trying to get boundaries respected and in the end it went no where really. If your ex has money they will hire solicitors well able to muddy the waters

Fortunately it's not me. I agree Jimmy on judges etc. He's had 7 years of it and fears court as no matter how right he is it always seems to be twisted on him. I've come across this a lot but never one where one party was so blatantly destroying the other openly to push them out and insert the partner in the role

 

[El Guapo]

Fun fact

Baluba" as a derogatory term:

• The term gained notoriety following the Niemba ambush in 1960 during the Congo Crisis.
• Irish soldiers were attacked by Baluba tribesmen, and the incident was sensationalized in the Irish popular press.
• The press reports included lurid details of alleged cannibalism, which contributed to the negative connotations associated with the term.
• In some parts of Ireland, "baluba" became a derogatory term for an untrustworthy or barbaric person.

My Grandfather was in the Congo.

He never really spoke about it to us but an Uncle of mine told us there was a train load of Irish lads and the train had to pull up with a tree fallen across the tracks..

There was a detail sent out to clear it they could hear war drums starting on the hills.

They couldn't see the Balubas just hear the drums.They must have been fuckin terrified.

My Grandfather would have been a captain or commandant at the time and started a singsong so settle down the lads.

They were Noble calling for about 3 hours till the train line was cleared.

He was also in Cyprus and till he died hated the Finnish after it. Never found out why exactly